My thought provoking share for today is that you may look up to Mr. Beetle! Specially when it comes to self confidence and flying!

You must be thinking…”What? A beetle? If I had to pick an animal I wouldn’t pick to be an insect…specially a beetle…that weird, big, noisy and clumsy one!”

Well, I can explain you why!

How often do you find yourself impaired on the decisions you have to make in life?

Starting from the smallest decision like…what to wear that day, what (and if) to cook dinner later today or eat out…

…Til those most impactful decisions….like job, career change…. moving towns, and where to…look out to have a steady relationship or keep being single and focusing on yourself (considering life is being messy enough!)…take a sabbatic period or invest on an MBA….well, I guess you got the idea. We all know life can get way more complex than that.

Now…how much energy do you spend thinking before making all these decisions? Is it with confidence and ease? How often do you decide not to decide? How often do you decide even though you don’t have a clue around it?

And the challenge here is you is at “why did you make the choice”  or “why was that choice so difficult”? “What has motivated you to that decision”?

Let me tell you 3 reasons why Mr. Beetle doesn’t have this problems you have:

1) Mr. Beetle is deaf

Deaf to negative critics and to other people’s expectations! Although (even scientists) say beetles don’t have good aero dynamics, that beetles are not light enough, not coordinated enough, etc…Mr.Beetle just “doesn’t hear” what these people have to say. He is not like other beetles, he is Mr. Beetle. And if their goal is to fly…how does these inputs put in that critical oriented way help? If people aren’t around with the approach to help, they better not bother 🙂

2) Mr. Beetle focus on the goal, which is to keep flying and flying further!

Mr. Beetle’s idea is to keep flying…and going further. As simple as that. Mr. Beetle has made other attempts and succeeded…why would he not succeed this time?

3) Beetle doesn’t care if he will be loved or not!

Mr. Beetle doesn’t care where people want him to go, how high or far, and how graceful the flight should be. He doesn’t care that if he was a bird or a bee the flight would be different (easier maybe). All he know is that he is a beetle and he is happy when flying! He doesn’t “give a duck” 😉

So….would you like to be more like Mr. Beetle now? More self oriented and confident? Focused on what tools, gifts and potentialities do YOU have to fly as who you are?

This is what Astrology Life Coaching can help you with, while assessing your birth chart and your life moment! Make like mr. Beetle and focus on your own journey and what are the most precious gifts you have. You’ll be positively surprised how having a map helps things out. 🙂

Let’s say “No” to external misleading voices and “yes” to fully exploring your own potentials by  accepting guidance on identifying all the external voices that are blocking you to fly or to fly higher! #Let’sGoTogether

How often have you seen yourself, lately, putting a lot of extra energy on things – work, relationships…..with the impression that is more like of a one way street….that nothing comes back in return? Not even words appreciation…

How often are you having to take the lead on things to get things minimally moving …  having to pointing out screaming problems that nobody  wants to acknowledge …Well, this is ok to work like this for a while but  time after time, it brings one  to the feeling of overwhelmingness, frustration,  agressiveness and ultimately need of reclusion…

The ugly truth…it is time to stop…and think through…why? why are doing this at all…first of all…why are you expecting any return at all from others? What kind of recognition or validation are you looking for?  Until which extent your actions and feelings are driven by others….I mean…do you really want to give all that power to others…will they be the ones leading your mood, your day and your happiness? Really? What is the secondary gain you have from being always the one making things move for others and around?

Again..think through…take some time to disconnect..get some perspective on the conditioning you were put under…when will you finally breakthrough from the ropes that were put on you…by others…and sometimes by yourself (in order to meet false beliefs on others expectations)?  And what is the price you are paying for it?

What if you make a trial…on trying to put yourself first…driving the attitude and the perspective towards what YOU believe …

If things are not ok…and you keep hearing all these voices in your mind that you are the problem…what kind of action or sick game will be playing with yourself?

I suggest you here a simple  and SWEET game for you…a game to “make believe”…

All you have to do here…is make believe…on anything that may be bothering you and keeping you away from being happy NOW!

If you have a problem…just “make believe” that all things were ok…that all is being figured it out…and of course act in congruence to that…act in congruence to the solution your heart points out to…Believe me…things will sort themselves out.. and BELIEVE IN YOU! Can’t be that hard, you used to do this as a child, come on 😉

In doubt on what to do, just go for what it FEELS RIGHT…and then I can promise you, it will be rewarding..because you are going to true and congruent to yourself…and exercising your right of having a conscious choice on life…on what is the ideal solution for all YOUR NEEDS are…and as you can see…they are not depending on others…they are only depending on you…creating and connecting to your own inner world…

And then, you’ll start changing the game 🙂 😉

Thoughts? Can’t wait to hear from you…just share below. 🙂